that the important thing should be the last, not the first.
there is a lot of fragility both among the players and around the real world. the developers take every possible precaution not to hurt anyone (and that's fine too), but there are situations where it is not credible to think you are the only one.
Sage hasn't had sex with Chad in three years? impossible.
is MC her first fuckbuddy? very unlikely
Maya and Josy haven't had sex almost every night since Josy's arrival at BR? unlikely
But that's okay, it's a game for adults.